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Velwythe’s Best and Brightest has added a new, interactive chat designed to get your questions answered by the experts. Starting with Jeff Schoener of Neuro-Enhancement Strategies, all of Velwythe’s B&B will soon be taking your questions and replying directly to you, or to the group.

To ask your questions you have thee options:

1. Visit the Voice of the People forum and find the board of the expert you want to speak to. Click Here

2. Head over to facebook to ask your question under the Velwythe’s Best and Brightest posts. The experts will answer you there. Click Here

3. Find the copy of your questions and answers on each member of VB&B’s website (links to the appropriate site will be given in the posts).

The experts at Best and Brightest will answer your questions…as long as you ask the appropriate expert. They are busy people. And asking Doctor Bonnie how to build a fence for your garden might not be the best use of your time (unless she’s really good at that, which might be the case, but even if so is not the point). Go ahead and try it out, see what you think. They’re here to help YOU.

And keep a close watch on Best and Brightest, we’re bringing on more and more experts every day. Thanks and enjoy!

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, PhD (www.doctorbonnie.com) internationally acclaimed relationship therapist named by Psychology Today as one of America’s best therapist and New York Magazine as one of the cities best therapist.  Dr. Bonnie, also known as the “Adultery Buster” has a 98% rate of couples that stay together even with the perils of adultery, with her groundbreaking theory— A cure for adultery!  She has developed a cutting edge treatment for children and families, which they can do at home using her smart heart skills and dialogue.  She helps singles to get past the 3rd date to commitment and marriage.

Dr. Bonnie has appeared 5 times on Oprah, a 3 day series on the Today Show, 4 day series on Fox, O’Reilly Report, CNN, 20/20, The View, Good Morning America, Discovery Channel, CBS Health watch, CBS, ABC, NBC, Fox News.  She frequently appears in/on USA Today, Wall Street Journal, New York Times, LA Times, Toronto Sun, Ladies Home Journal, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Women’s Health, Self Magazine, Redbook, Money Magazine, Glamour, Time Magazine, and Daily News.

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil is the author of the best seller’s Make up Don’t Break Up: Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples Second Edition 2010 (accompanying DVD featuring her Smart Heart Skills and Romance Magic), Adultery the Forgivable Sin (that became a Lifetime movie starring Kate Jackson). She is also the author of Financial Infidelity: Seven Steps to Conquering The #1 Relationship Wrecker recently out in paperback and Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery, explains her innovative theory and treatment on adultery.

For more info on Jeff and N.E.S. click here
Magical Perspectives vs. Reality Perceptions

Some years ago, there was at my feet was a stone, a crystal really. I would have walked past it if the moonlight failed to reflect it in just the right way. I picked it up, blew off the dust and watched as the light was reflected the prism. It was as if in that moment I was connected to this crystal and it was connected to me. It called, I listened. I tried to set it aside, I couldn’t. I was mesmerized. Without this, a new lens, I would have only continued to see at what I had always seen. I put it up to my eye and looked deeply into the crystal. The reflective lights through the facets of the stone would shine new colors on what I thought I saw. The landscape was now different. The path I would walk in my sleep now held new meaning and dimension.
Perceptions
Our perceptions may be our greatest allies or our most formidable foes. For within them hold the ability to display our limitations that will increase our frustrations, or they may allow our imaginations to soar.
Perceptions, individual or shared are our personal world views. The more limited one’s perception the smaller their world-view. The greater our perceptions the more we understand. New directions, newer possibilities—worlds open before us. Consider Christopher Columbus who sailed in the face of a flat- earth belief. Today we know his charts were wrong, yet his perception was correct. When he returned with proof of new worlds, the rest of Europe let go of their flat-earth belief and would also profit from something new.
Individually we go through our lives; we plod along and suppress our dreams. As a Master Practitioner and Trainer of NLP™ I am a change-master. People come to me with their limited beliefs and with some mental exercises in new perceptions, they let go of their old and become excited about the new elements of their lives. Their fears, albeit irrational, are real. They are locked into their nervous system and it is my job to free them. They perceive the rest of their world as a shared reality. A chair is a chair, as solid as we are. If someone’s perception came through the lens of a fear—a height phobia for example, place that same chair on the edge of a balcony and they may not even see the chair beyond their fear.
We constantly chart courses for ourselves. We plan and readjust based upon what is commonly referred to as reality. Real, but to whom? Individual reality is merely a perception. Shared realities are shared perceptions. Like fingerprints, no two realities, no matter how closely shared are the same. Consider this when parents perceives their children in some way. Children attempt to fit into the parents’ perceptions. In some cases it is a fine fit. In most other cases, the child must take extra time in order to become their own person based upon the child’s own perceptions and then deal with the expectations of the parents. Reality isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. The sooner we come to terms with that fact, the happier and more productive individuals we will become.
What I saw, so many years before would transform me because of that night. Nothing is as it seems. The profundity of my understanding is still being sorted out. This has extended to each morsel of food I eat and each drop I drink has new meaning through my new found Multi-Dimensional Understanding™
© 2009 Jeff Schoener, Neuro-Enhancement Strategies, Inc.